We had a great day today visiting the beach! The boys just love it there. As a matter of fact, so do we. Brad has finally accepted that the sand is okay and the sun won't hurt him!!!! Today we had another great family day there after running some errands. The weather couldn't have been better. Upper 80's/sunny/windy and just plain great. The tide was very high when we got there, but lowered back into the ocean after an hour of us being there. I know there probably is a better word for "tide lowered back" but I don't know the technical terms.....April, I know you have the answers! I think my family and I need a oceanography lesson from you.
Anyways, the boys just love the water and sand. Matthew seriously didn't stop running the entire time we were there. Sam and him jumped wave after wave, puddle after puddle. It was grand. Poor little Matthew bit the sand in some larger waves a few times....however, it didn't seem to stop him. Sam got a mouthful of sea shell sand a few times, however, that didn't stop him as well.
The boys both were given a plastic bag to collect shells. WOW...the bags are FULL of shells. They did great. Matthew thought it was rather hilarious when he found a broken shell!! Mom, we're saving the shells for when you're hear so you can help me build a
shellasic (my word for Mosaic) picture frame!!!! Can't wait!
The beach was full today. There were so many people there. Kids were everywhere. I have to admit, being in the water with the boys does make me a tad bit nervous. One of my huge fears is drowning. I often have dreams that one of my children is trapped in the water and can't get out. I know this fear has come from my many years of watching Fear Factor. I have to say, I totally dislike that show ever since I became a mom and till this day I can't watch it. With that said, today I witnessed one of my mommy fears.
There are no lifeguards at the beach we went to today....a few of us were standing out in the water. There was a lady who ran out into the tide and I saw her run past me in a huff, but didn't think much of it. I head some screaming, but again, that's what people do at the beach. Scream, splash yell etc. It's all part of it because frankly, you can't hear anything. Anyways, she kept running back and forth, back to shore, into the water. There were a few men who went after her asking if everything was okay....I couldn't hear the conversation, however, I had a sense it wasn't a good thing. I finally went up to a man who had a blank stare on his face and I asked him what was going on. Now mind you there were hundreds of people at the beach.....The man informed me that this lady's daughter was missing. My heart literally sank to my feet. I think I got that blank stare on my face as well. The man filled me in on the look of the daughter but I as well had 2 little boys who I couldn't leave.
I swear, I got goosebumps up and down my body. I watched this lady run all over the place, yelling, screaming, crying, yelling, in the waves. People were finally spreading the word and so many people were helping her. I was just imagining her 8 year old daughter trapped in a wave...it was horrible. This mother was frantically sprinting back and forth, jumping in and out of the water, shrieking screams of worry. This was going on for 20+ minutes or so.
Many minutes went by, people were looking all over. Brad was 100% clueless of what was going on as he was having a grand ole' conversation with a friend of ours in the water watching the boys, because I just couldn't get the words out of my mouth to tell him. Many many many more minutes passed and finally I heard a "
aaahhhhhhhh" flow over the beach. The girl was found. The mother yanked her up by her arm and grabbed her away from her 'new' friends she had made at the beach. The 8 year old little girl just found some friends and was playing along shore, had wandered off unintentionally and had no clue what was going on. The little 8 year old girl had no idea her mother was in a panic, worried that she would never see her daughter again. When I saw the mother hug her daughter I could only imagine the emotions that were going through the mothers head....RELIEVED, SUPER UPSET, THANKFUL, IRATE, LOVE.
I was standing along shore, tears were filling up my eyes...I seriously NEVER want to be that mother. I will have a leash on my children forever. I love the beach, but I am a nervous wreck thanks to Fear Factor.....but I'll go back, with my leash and electric collar that I will purchase to shock them if they go further than 5 feet away. My thought, a pool is one place, a HUGE Ocean beach....it's got my fear all over it. There is a reason my children have bright ORANGE swim suites...so I can see them at all times. I am crazy!